The world has told women to enjoy pleasure and sex, but it has not told them ‘how’ to enjoy it!
Belonging to an Indian society, we are still in a huge phase where a woman’s sexual pleasure is neglected and at times, even ignored. WHY? Simply because, a woman takes longer than a man to come! And honestly, itni mehnat kaun karega! – could be a man’s way of thinking!
Given this, many men are also unaware of the fact that women take longer to reach an orgasm. This is why, many women are not even aware of their pleasure because they haven’t even experienced it!
So, there are instances where a woman fakes an orgasm, most of the time! There are many reasons for this! One of the biggest reasons is the partners’ feelings. No woman would want to make her man think or realize whether what is going wrong, or am I (male partner) not doing it correctly, or why am I not able to do it…etc, etc, etc. There are high chances that a woman wants her man to think that she has enjoyed it. During the process, women may fake orgasms by moaning or gasping, breathing heavily which makes her partner think that she is climaxing!
At times, a woman also feels it is incorrect to ‘ask’ her partner what she wants, so she just goes with the flow; keeping the male emotions and feelings at priority! Women think that it may be a turn off for her partner if she asks for it! Maybe it is also because the woman gets asked constantly how she is feeling during the process, but since it takes longer for a woman to come, a man would not stop until the woman climaxes. It may be love-driven but can also be forced like “I won’t stop until you come!”
This could be one last reason why women fake it – because they know they are not going to climax, and they do not want to hurt their partners’ feelings; or maybe the man is not staying for a longer time ‘down there’!
Said that, when the male of the society are on the top and are rising up in their professional lives, shouldn’t they be staying a bit longer ‘down there’! Maybe it could be a YES! YES! YES! from a woman!
